The best way to bust your cache is to use a hash (based on the file's contents) as part of the filename itself to create a file "fingerprint". Changing the filename of your cached asset (CSS, JS, favicon) files appears like a new (uncached) file. The server then makes a new request to a fresh (updated) copy of your asset file, which is great: users will get the latest updated assets without having to clear out their cache.
Fingerprinting files is great, but doing that manually is a nightmare.
At Sparkbox, we use Grunt (task automater) to build amazing websites. To automate cache busting, you can combine two Grunt tasks, Bushcaster and string-replace for a solution to the cache problem: Bushcaster-string-replace.
Let's go over the important stuff in the Gruntfile.coffee.
grunt.cacheMap = 
You'll need this to store the pattern/replacement object collected in the bushcaster "onComplete" call.
In the Bushcaster options, you'll probably want the noProcess flag.
I learned this the hard way. Without this flag, Grunt will modify references in the files, which screws up binary files, like images, favicons, etc. It's best just not to process any of the files for now.
The string-replace was the best Grunt task that I could find that would accept a pattern/replacement object built in the onComplete step previously.
So all you'll need to do is specify the replacements as that object previously collected in grunt.cacheMap (call it whatever you want).
options: replacements: grunt.cacheMap
This repo has a build directory, which will place all the .html files inside. It's important to know that that might not be the case for the project you're working on. Be careful NOT to overwrite your actual source files.
'string-replace': dist: files: 'build/': '*.html' # dest: source
When you have cache busting in place, you can enjoy setting a long expires to your asset files. We know that fingerprinted assets will always be different, you can then adjust your .htaccess file to allow for longer cacheing times on assets you are busting. Example.
Our build process (using Assemble and Grunt) needed a solution to the cache problem. Using these two Grunt libraries, you have an asset fingerprinting, cache-busting tool for your static site. It's important to add, Ruby on Rails already has cache-busting functionality with the asset pipeline.
So there you have it! This is our solution for now for our static sites. Now that you know, give it a shot. Enjoy busting all the caches!